The I’s don’t have it

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As a college application essay coach, my inbox is inundated with personal essays. All of them rife, riddled, replete with a construction that starts to feel like a hammer hitting a nail: I + verb.

I think. I did. I was. I believe. I tried. I plan. I hope. I studied. I found.

As individual statements, fine, but when the I-plus-verb construction appears multiple times in a single sentence, and dozens of times in a 600-word essay, it jars.

But how, students ask, am I supposed to write about myself without using ‘I’?

Well, friends, it can be done. And stylishly. Here goes.

I+ verb constructions

What it is: Repeated use of I-plus-verb to start a sentence or clause in a first-person narrative

Where: Personal statements, college application essays, personal essays, memoirs

How it happens: Writers echo a wordy, informal speech pattern

Why delete? Creates boring, stilted, repetitive sentences; sounds solipsistic/narcissistic

Examples

  1. When I was four, I had an imaginary friend
    Dressy edit: Aged four, I had an imaginary friend
    Casual edit: My imaginary friend, when I was four 

  1. When I look back on all the games I have played since I was little

    Dressy edit: Reflecting on childhood games

    Casual edit:  Thinking about the games I played as a kid

  2. Through the friends I made, I came across a charity and I was attracted to its philosophy
    Dressy edit: My friends introduced me to a charity whose philosophy attracted me
    Casual edit: Thanks to my friends, I discovered a charity with a great philosophy

  1. Given how much I absorbed in class, I became frustrated by the repetitiveness of the curriculum; this was when I turned to the internet. I fell in love with Wikipedia
    Dressy edit: Given my rapid mastery of the course, I became frustrated with the repetitive curriculum and turned to the internet, where Wikipedia won my heart
    Casual edit: Since class materials were same-old same-old, I dove into the internet and discovered Wikipedia’s treasure trove

  1. My intellectual curiosity has taken me on adventures I could never have imagined. As I look forward to college, I cannot wait.
    Dressy edit: Curiosity has fuelled my intellectual adventures. I anticipate with relish what college holds
    Casual edit: Frankly, I cannot wait to continue my curiosity-fuelled intellectual adventures in college

Sentence structure secrets

I+verb is easy to fall into because it is the basic construction of an active declarative English sentence.

Active declarative English sentences are beautiful things, but they come in all shapes and sizes. Discourse markers, disjuncts and subordinate clauses are just a few of the tools writers have available to create varied, engaging sentences.